Two new girls showed up at school today. Two mixed girls
actually. Quite a rough day for them I imagine—the kids at this school can be
ruthless when it comes to just about anything. Mixed race or not, new kids get
a hard time at their age. The younger one not quite looking black certainly
won’t make it easier on her. I tried at least for today to not single her out
by trying to help her, but boy is she a bit of a misfit. She could barely even
whimper the words “Black is Beautiful.” As if she never even realized that
belonged to the black race. The kids wouldn’t give her slack for learning. They
all act as if they weren’t quavering the first time they were asked to say it.
Mixed race or not, the first time we ask these kids to stand up and profess
their race, it’s confusing to them—kids don’t give it much thought until we
tell them about it. But that’s our duty, to tell them in a constructive way
before they hear from the rest of society all the sick negativity surrounding
our race.
Though, I suppose it must be particularly confusing to this
child, Birdie. How is she to tell to which race she belongs if she looks like
neither? Funny that after centuries of the whitest of us being forced to be
black that these children won’t let a little half-black girl be black like the
rest of them.
Kids though, they forget, and they move on. Once the other
kids understand that she’s black even if she doesn’t look like them, they’ll
get over it and call her black. It’s the adults in this country that will give
these kids a hard time for the rest of their lives. It’s the black adults that
won’t accept Birdie as black once as she gets older. It’s the white adults that
won’t accept Birdie as white either.
I caught wind after school from the other teachers that
their parents are divorced. Hopefully they’re on good terms at least. Messed up
family is the last childhood trauma these kids will need on their laundry list.
We all have our bag of childhood trauma’s to get over, but these girls, they’ll
have all of any of ours and more.
Hopefully they pay close attention in class. I try to tell
stories. Stories of the figures these children can look to for guidance when no
one will be their guide in reality. People who found their values and fought
for them in the face of oppression. Regardless of who or what will be the
obstacles, there is so much to learn in the character of these figures, for God
knows we all face a different journey.
I just hope these girls—all the children really—learn how to
give themselves strength in positive ways rather than crumbling under their own
weak crutches that gets them through a few days.
Quote (p. 65): “But I did feel different—more conscious of
my body as a toy, and of the ways I could use it to disappear into the world
around me.”
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